Are you struggling with the effects of sex and love addiction?
Right now, as a result of sex and love addiction, you may be experiencing:
- A pattern of intense, obsessive relationships that begin and end dramatically
- Using sexual behavior to cope with stress, loneliness, or other difficult emotions
- Feeling empty or anxious when not in a relationship or sexual encounter
- Neglecting important responsibilities to pursue romantic or sexual connections
- Continuing sexual behaviors despite negative consequences to health, relationships, or self-esteem
- Feeling shame about your sexual or romantic behaviors but unable to change the pattern
You're realizing that your sex and love addiction is getting in the way of your life:
- Your relationships follow the same destructive pattern despite promises to change
- You compromise your values and boundaries in pursuit of connection
- Your work, health, or finances are suffering due to your preoccupation with sex or romance
- You feel increasingly isolated and misunderstood
- The behaviors that once brought relief now bring more pain and emptiness
You’re wondering…
- Is this really an addiction, or am I just bad at relationships?
- Why do I keep repeating these patterns despite knowing better?
- How is my childhood or past trauma connected to these behaviors?
- Can I ever have healthy intimacy without the obsession and drama?
- Will the shame and secrecy ever go away?
You’re longing for…
- Healthy intimacy based on genuine connection rather than compulsion.
- Freedom from the cycle of obsession, acting out, and shame.
- Understanding of the underlying needs you’re trying to meet through addiction.
- Relationships where you feel secure without constant validation.
- Self-worth that doesn’t depend on being desired or in a relationship.
- Healing from the trauma that may be driving your addictive patterns.
How we can help you.
At our trauma-informed therapy center, we approach sex and love addiction with compassion, recognizing it often stems from early attachment wounds and trauma. Our therapists are trained in treating the complex intersection of addiction and trauma, helping you understand the connection between your past experiences and current patterns. We combine addiction recovery approaches with trauma processing, attachment work, and healthy intimacy skill-building to support your journey toward balanced, fulfilling relationships.
What you’re longing for is possible.
By pursuing trauma therapy for sex and love addiction, you can imagine the following:
Compulsive pursuit of romantic or sexual connections to feel whole or worthy.
Self-worth that comes from within rather than external validation.
Relationships characterized by intensity, drama, and eventual pain.
Capacity for healthy intimacy based on mutuality, respect, and appropriate pacing.
Using sex or relationships to numb painful feelings.
Ability to tolerate difficult emotions without acting out.
Shame cycle that perpetuates addictive behaviors.
Self-compassion and understanding of the roots of your addiction.
Difficulty distinguishing between love and obsession or dependency.
Clearer understanding of healthy versus unhealthy attachment.
Neglecting other areas of life in pursuit of romantic or sexual connections.
A more balanced life with diverse sources of meaning and fulfillment.
What if I’m Not Ready?
Not Quite Ready to Book a Complimentary Concierge Matching Call? That’s Okay.
We understand that taking the first step towards therapy can feel overwhelming. We’re here to make this decision easier for you.
Starting therapy can bring up mixed feelings—part of you might be eager, while another part hesitates to confront deeply buried emotions. You might doubt whether therapy can help, especially if you’ve struggled for a long time or had disappointing experiences with untrained therapists or life coaches. At Evergreen Counseling, our trauma-trained therapists are deeply committed to providing expert care.
Here’s How We Can Help You Move Forward
- Complimentary Concierge Matching Call: Our concierge matching call is an opportunity for you to ask questions, share your concerns, and see if our approach feels right for you—without any obligation.
- Reimbursement Options: Concerned about the cost? We can guide you on how to get reimbursed for therapy using your out-of-network insurance benefits, making high-quality care more accessible to you.
- Informed Decision: Whether you’re ready to start or still exploring your options, we want you to feel fully informed and confident in your choice.
