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EMDR for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Are you struggling with the effects of narcissistic abuse?

Right now, you may be experiencing:

 

  • Profound self-doubt, questioning your own perceptions, memories, and sanity (gaslighting effects)
  • Feeling emotionally drained, confused, and exhausted from the constant manipulation and lack of empathy
  • A diminished sense of self-worth, feeling insignificant or only valuable when serving the narcissist’s needs
  • Difficulty setting boundaries or saying “no,” often feeling obligated or fearful of the narcissist’s reaction
  • Hypervigilance to the abuser’s moods and needs, constantly walking on eggshells
  • Symptoms of C-PTSD, including anxiety, depression, flashbacks related to abusive incidents, and difficulty trusting others
  • Feeling isolated, as the abuser may have alienated you from friends, family, or support systems
  • Intense feelings of shame, guilt, or believing you were somehow responsible for the abuse

You're realizing that your narcissistic abuse are getting in the way of your life:

  • You struggle to trust your own judgment in relationships, work, or daily decisions
  • You may find yourself drawn to similar unhealthy relationship dynamics
  • Your ability to connect authentically with safe, supportive people is impaired
  • You feel stuck, unable to move forward or fully reclaim your life after the relationship ended
  • The emotional and psychological toll impacts your physical health, career, and overall well-being
  • You minimize the abuse or find it hard to label it as such, contributing to ongoing self-blame

You’re wondering…

  • Was it really abuse? Am I just being too sensitive?
  • How could I have let this happen? Why did I stay so long?
  • Will I ever be able to trust anyone again, including myself?
  • Can I heal from the deep wounds left by this type of insidious abuse?
  • How do I protect myself from narcissistic individuals in the future?
  • Could EMDR help me process the specific manipulations and betrayals I experienced?

You’re longing for…

  • Clarity, validation, and the ability to trust your own reality again.
  • Freedom from the lingering effects of gaslighting, manipulation, and emotional abuse.
  • A restored sense of self-worth and confidence, independent of external validation.
  • The ability to establish and maintain strong, healthy boundaries in all relationships.
  • Healing from the deep emotional wounds and trauma symptoms.
  • Healthy, reciprocal relationships built on mutual respect, empathy, and trust.

How we can help you.

At Evergreen Counseling, we understand the profound and often invisible wounds inflicted by narcissistic abuse. This form of psychological manipulation erodes self-worth, distorts reality, and can lead to complex trauma. Our EMDR therapists are specifically trained to recognize the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and its devastating impact.

What you’re longing for is possible.

By pursuing EMDR therapy for narcissistic abuse recovery at Evergreen Counseling, you can imagine the following:

Before Therapy After Therapy

Feeling lost.

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Regaining clarity and self-trust.

Confused.

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Establishing strong boundaries.

Doubting yourself.

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Rebuilding self-worth.

Struggling with the emotional aftermath of manipulation and control.

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Moving towards healthier relationships.

What if I’m Not Ready?

Not Quite Ready to Book a Complimentary Concierge Matching Call? That’s Okay.

We understand that taking the first step towards therapy can feel overwhelming. We’re here to make this decision easier for you.

Starting therapy can bring up mixed feelings—part of you might be eager, while another part hesitates to confront deeply buried emotions. You might doubt whether therapy can help, especially if you’ve struggled for a long time or had disappointing experiences with untrained therapists or life coaches. At Evergreen Counseling, our trauma-trained therapists are deeply committed to providing expert care.

Here’s How We Can Help You Move Forward

  • Complimentary Concierge Matching Call: Our concierge matching call is an opportunity for you to ask questions, share your concerns, and see if our approach feels right for you—without any obligation.
  • Reimbursement Options: Concerned about the cost? We can guide you on how to get reimbursed for therapy using your out-of-network insurance benefits, making high-quality care more accessible to you.
  • Informed Decision: Whether you’re ready to start or still exploring your options, we want you to feel fully informed and confident in your choice.

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