Are you struggling with the effects of Borderline Personality Disorder?
Right now, as a result of Borderline Personality Disorder, you may be experiencing:
- Intense emotional swings that feel overwhelming and uncontrollable
- A deep fear of abandonment that affects all your relationships
- Uncertainty about who you really are and what you want from life
- Impulsive behaviors that provide temporary relief but long-term problems
- Intense anger that seems to come out of nowhere and is difficult to manage
- Feelings of emptiness and disconnection from yourself and others
You're realizing that your BPD is getting in the way of your life:
- Your relationships are volatile with extreme ups and downs
- You push people away when you need them most because you’re afraid they’ll leave first
- Your emotional reactions seem disproportionate, even to you
- You engage in self-destructive behaviors to cope with emotional pain
- You struggle to maintain stability in work, relationships, and daily functioning
You’re wondering…
- Is this just who I am, or can I change these patterns?
- Why do I feel things so intensely when others seem to manage their emotions easily?
- Will I ever have stable relationships without the fear and drama?
- Is medication necessary, or are there other approaches?
- How is trauma connected to what I’m experiencing?
You’re longing for…
- Emotional stability and the ability to self-regulate without extreme measures
- Healthy relationships where you feel secure without constant reassurance
- A clear sense of who you are and what matters to you
- Skills to manage distress without resorting to harmful behaviors
- Understanding the connection between your past experiences and current struggles
- Freedom from the shame that comes with this diagnosis
How we can help you.
At our trauma-informed therapy center, we understand that BPD often develops as an adaptation to complex trauma. Our therapists are trained in evidence-based approaches specifically designed for BPD, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Schema Therapy, integrated with trauma-informed care. We focus on building skills for emotional regulation while processing underlying traumatic experiences that contribute to your symptoms.
What you’re longing for is possible.
By pursuing trauma therapy for BPD, you can imagine the following:
Emotional storms that overwhelm you and everyone around you.
Increased emotional regulation and the ability to ride emotional waves without being consumed by them.
Intense fear of abandonment that leads to frantic efforts to avoid being alone.
A more secure sense of self that can tolerate healthy separation and independence in relationships.
Black and white thinking where people are either all good or all bad.
The ability to see yourself and others as complex beings with both strengths and weaknesses.
Impulsive behaviors that provide momentary relief but long-term consequences.
Skills to pause, reflect, and choose responses that align with your values and long-term goals.
A fragmented sense of identity that shifts depending on who you're with.
A more cohesive and stable sense of who you are, independent of others' perceptions.
Chronic feelings of emptiness and meaninglessness.
The capacity to create meaning and purpose in your life beyond crisis management.
What if I’m Not Ready?
Not Quite Ready to Book a Complimentary Concierge Matching Call? That’s Okay.
We understand that taking the first step towards therapy can feel overwhelming. We’re here to make this decision easier for you.
Starting therapy can bring up mixed feelings—part of you might be eager, while another part hesitates to confront deeply buried emotions. You might doubt whether therapy can help, especially if you’ve struggled for a long time or had disappointing experiences with untrained therapists or life coaches. At Evergreen Counseling, our trauma-trained therapists are deeply committed to providing expert care.
Here’s How We Can Help You Move Forward
- Complimentary Concierge Matching Call: Our concierge matching call is an opportunity for you to ask questions, share your concerns, and see if our approach feels right for you—without any obligation.
- Reimbursement Options: Concerned about the cost? We can guide you on how to get reimbursed for therapy using your out-of-network insurance benefits, making high-quality care more accessible to you.
- Informed Decision: Whether you’re ready to start or still exploring your options, we want you to feel fully informed and confident in your choice.
